From Africa to California – YOU!

I’m sitting at ‘Classic Coffee’ in the quaint city of Glendora grateful to see the June gloom clearing and the sun beginning to shine and California become all that it known for!

I’ve been back  in the United States from Sierra Leone now for just a couple of days recovering from jetlag and catching up with friends in Newport Beach in the ‘OC’.   The contrast from Sierra Leone, Western Africa is stark. You can catch up on previous posts here. Almost feels wrong to try and compare.  I will admit though – I am the first to be grateful for ‘Western luxuries’… running water, hot LONG showers, flushing toilets, power not operated by a generator, GREAT roads, owning a car, being able to camouflage into the crowd, NOT being consistently asked for ‘small money’, being able to drink water from the tap….able to eat salad… and the list goes on.  Not only am I grateful… I like these ‘normal’ luxuries.  They make my life easy.  They make it possible for me to pursue things I like and want.  A career… relationships… adventure… new clothes…   Think about it.  Having the ability to jump in a shower in your house, grab some water from the tap, eat food from your fridge allows you to then jump into your car to go to the job you need to have to pay for all of the above!  Luxuries more then most of the world don’t have.

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We’ve all heard the poverty statistics.  Actually, I think most of us have gotten numb to them.  I might have even told you that out of 1000 babies born in Sierra Leone, 270 die before the age of five –  http://www.unicef.org/india/media_3896.htm.

Let’s bring that stat home.  The beautiful, smart little girl in the pic was adopted by ’mumma’ Ruth from LWI when her mother died at 18 days old.  Her family didn’t want her to become another statistic.  Already out of the ten children born to her mum, five had died!  Staggering!

This past two weeks, I got to see the impact fresh water actually has on a community.  The band I work for Alabaster Box partnered with the non-for-profit Global Benefit to raise funds.  Below is a village that received clean water for the first time in 25 years.  ’Glady Glady’ means happy!  As you can see… this grandma is still VERY happy that they have clean water close walking distance to their house!

This was the well Alabaster Box helped restore. I don’t think I could lift that bucket…. let alone get it on top of my head without getting baptised!

America, Australia, New Zealand, Canada, England… comfortable.  Even amidst an economic crisis. We are blessed beyond measure. So easy to commit the ‘sin of omission’ as spoken about by World Vision President, Richard Stearn in ‘A hole in our Gospel’.

Lets think about what we as individuals can do. An seed for thought… get a group of friends together and have a ‘House gig’ in your back yard. Invite your neighbours… (lets get to know our locals a bit!) and friends… get an acoustic artist to play. (I’ve seen it done with a hip hop artist before… didn’t go down to well with the locals who weren’t attending!) and throw a bit of a ‘party with a purpose’. Share the vision of a great need in the world. If you are interested in raising money for a well in Sierra Leone… PLEASE talk to me! Let’s get some more clean water for people who don’t have any.

If you’re passions are elsewhere raise funds for them. It’s a good start to become familiar with a country and a cause. We have a responsibility to do something. And how fun is it ‘having a party!’ YOU absolutely can make a difference in someone’s world!

Be blessed today friends!

Building in Sierra Leone

Found myself wondering why Sierra Leonean blokes were so ripped… check out this for a workout. Squats then lifting weights (bowls full of gravel or concrete) above their heads to pass to the next person… and all in sync with each other! Everything built by manual labour here. Every rock, rio and concrete is manually lifted to the roof. I love how they’ve worked out this system. What an amazing work out. Seriously these people know how to work there butts off!

The transformation… unhealthy to clean

trying to do the balancing act...I’m writing tonight from the ‘Harmony Hotel’ (highly recommend this place if you ever come here. Its close to the airport, run by a honest Christian man who understands Western Culture) in Lungi, Sierra Leone. I’m lathered in mosquito repellant and have just finished watching the British tie in the World Cup against Algeria with a bunch of Brit miners who are here working for African Minerals. I’ve also found myself addicted to these ginger nut biscuits I bought from a peddler on the ferry this morning! Almost demolished a whole packet already! Hopefully I see him again tomorrow! Also made a fool of myself trying to carry a bucket on my head. Thought the Sierra Leonean’s needed a laugh!

Today I got to see a well refurbished by Living Water International and a village given clean water. It was an amazing to see the well owner so so grateful. I believe the man and his family are Muslim… but he got to see first hand the love of Christ this week and hear the truth. While we were there, at least five different people came up to us to talk to us about their dry or ruined wells. The need is overwhelming. Below is a before and after shot of the well we worked on.

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Well Refurbished and Clean

So clean water truly makes a difference in peoples lives. The team visibly see a difference in children’s health. Snotty noses and unhealthy coughs clear up as the village embraces the clean hygiene techniques taught and drink clean water. Check out Living Water International’s work all over the world here.

On the home front, tonight Ruth bid her husband goodbye. He had to fly to the states to be with his ill dad. Ruth will stay on to keep the projects going. We’re going to spend some time at the Mercy Ship base and work from there. I’m sure there will be some big time reporting from there! Please pray for the family. It’s certainly been a tough couple of days… especially with this added stress. Please pray for God’s supernatural protection and provision for all of our needs. I thank you for joining me on this journey. I so am aware that I am completely surrounded by prayers. Know that you are here with me in Spirit!

In Africa for International Day of the African Child

Today I got to visit a school for the International Day of the African Child.

In Soweto, South Africa, thousands of black school children took to the streets in 1976, in a march more than half a mile long, to protest the inferior quality of their education and to demand their right to be taught in their own language. Hundreds of young boys and girls were shot down; and in the two weeks of protest that followed, more than a hundred people were killed and more than a thousand were injured.

To honour the memory of those killed and the courage of all those who marched, the Day of the African Child has been celebrated on 16 June every year since 1991, when it was first initiated by the Organization of African Unity. The Day also draws attention to the lives of African children today.  Read more…

It was a really interesting day.  The school we went to was in a slum area.  I’m not sure those roads are ever driven by a car.  The bumps woke Mariatu (Ruth’s adopted child) up!

Hopefully I’ll be able to show some videos soon… but the preschool had about 90 students and had only been opened 18 months.  The building was incomplete… one room had tiled floor but the rest was mud packed… extremely limited resources.  No toilets… kids literally relieved themselves right out in front of the doorway to the school.  It’s sickening to conceptualise such limited understanding of basic hygiene.

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The celebration at this school basically just had a select few students dressing up in traditional African dress and dancing.  I’m not sure how they chose who performed.  I was shocked to see how these kids (preschool age mind you) danced.  So sensually!  It was like watching nightclub girls dancing.  Apparently, they learn this kind of dancing from a very young age.  The children looked like puppets.  Showing no emotions at all.  No smiles… just moving their bodies around in such unchildlike manners.  The teacher put out a bucket and parents were encouraged to donate money.  It was rather disturbing to watch.  Who can really know who’s pocket the money would go too.  Hopefully towards further progress on the schools development.

Children are taught to beg for money at an early, early age.  We drove out to the bush today to take some guys out to continue digging a well.  We probably came to four different barricades (rope or bamboo) across roads with children trying to stop traffic to bribe drivers for money… encouraged and endorsed by parents.  We had to explain to them that we were building them wells and tried helping them understand that they were getting clean water for free and that it was unnecessary for them to be begging all the time.  You don’t get to see many children play.  You see a lot of children’s toys (second hand ones that I imagine have been donated to the country) for sale.

So today think about Africa and the many children, mums and dads that have so little.  Teach your children to be generous and grateful for the blessing of life, the blessing of toys, the blessing of health, the blessing of toilets… showers…  God is so good.  And if you can sponsor a well… or a child… make a difference in someones life by working with one of the many selfless organisations working in Sierra Leone or other African countries.

I pray personally for a deeper love for people… and for the gift of tongues  How good would it be to just speak and understand the native Sierra Leonean tongue!  Thank you for your prayers and intercession.  Some rough stuff is going on back home for the family I’m staying with.  Will keep you posted.

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From crazy currency exchange… to boarding a ship

Today we visited Freetown, Sierra Leone to run some errands and visit the Logos Hope.

Firstly I exchanged some American dollars.

Things you should know about currency exchange in Sierra Leone…

-          you will get more for your buck if you exchange $100 bills and they most likely wont even take a $1 bill

-          $100 today equaled about 400,000 Leones and the largest denomination is 10,000 Leones.  But I was given all 5,000 leones… so I look like I have a truck load of cash!

-          You can exchange in a bank… but you can likely get a better conversion on the side of the road by talking too the dudes that yell ‘Exchange! Exchange! Exchange!’….  Very weird… but apparently legal… Sierra Leone even has a drive through bank!

Driving through the streets are crazy.  You lock your doors and keep windows up.  I took a few photos out the windows but you have to be careful not asking for permission.  I had people telling me ‘no photo, no photo!’  Some obliged reluctantly when asked.

We visited a little Western Café, called Crown Bakery and I purchased a cuppa tea, a meat pie and a Coconut Macaroon.  Meat pie was more like a pastie with just mince in it.

Ruth from Living Water International had to pay taxes and social security for her employees.  Interesting thing to note about this was we were the only people in the building.  Taxpaying doesn’t seem high on anyone’s agenda.

Next we attempted to find the Logos Hope.  Went to the wrong dock and took an hour and a half to drive about a mile to the correct place.  Traffic was horrendous.  Literally one of the streets we drove down we had to clear people off it (persistent horn honking) to drive down it.  People had put out there goods all over the streets and there was not even a cars width space to drive down.  Craziness.  Whatever you can think of is being sold.  Anything donated by other countries, random stolen goods – mobile phones… bottles refilled with liquid (who knows what!) etc… will end up on the streets being hocked off to earn someone their daily bread.

Finally we got to the dock.  Actually it was a breath of fresh air walking into such a peaceful place.  We met up with Zainad and her son Muhummad (she works for LWI teaching Hygiene) and through some more random parking issues we somehow connected with this other young girl, Esther.  She spoke very fluent English and was obviously educated.

Once on board the Logos Hope, I met up with some Aussie’s I had been connected with prior on facebook.  I think it was really cool for them to find a patriot in such a foreign country.  Some of these guys hadn’t seen their families in years.  These guys give two years of their lives to serve on board and dock in countries all round the world to serve.  If you are considering missions these guys are totally worth checking out!

The ship was great.  We ended up spending quite a bit of time in the HUGE bookstore.  (Random fact – it’s the biggest floating bookstore in the world!)  Loved that it was full of all different types of books – cookbooks, kids books, religious, bibles…. You name it – all for sale at very reasonable prices.  Seriously, I bought a book worth $15 + tax in the States for about $6.  They had dropped the prices dramatically so the Sierra Leoneans could have a chance at affording them.  It was awesome!

During the afternoon, I got to know Esther a bit.  She was intrigued by the ship and had never seen anything like it.  She was even more intrigued by the abundance of books… and all the information contained in so many books.  I’m not sure I’ve stopped to appreciate the overabundance of information I have constantly bombarding me.  We in the west, are moving away from ‘books’ to getting all our info online… if it can’t be found on google it ain’t worth knowing right?!  Or we’re buying books ‘online’ to read on itouches or kindles.  I watched these people in this bookstore pick up books and thumb through them like they were as precious as gold.  What a gift we have – first to be able to read this post and second to have access to all the knowledge in the world because of that.

I walked with Esther to get her more information about OMAfrica.  I found out she’d made a commitment to follow Christ early in her life after being brought up in a Christian family.  Her father died when she was young and her mother tried forcing her to get married at thirteen years old.  Esther, not wanting to follow in her families uneducated footsteps – was kicked out of home because she did not want to follow in her families uneducated footsteps and she got herself from the Liberian boarder all the way to capital, Freetown to stay with an older brother.  She then put herself through school winning scholarships and doing whatever it took to get money.  I’m not sure if prostitution can be ruled out.  All to follow her own dreams of becoming educated and becoming an accountant!  She exuded ‘the spirit of Esther’.  She showed me her Gideon New Testament bible and I felt to get her the whole bible.  Man, the look on her face when I gave it to her was amazing.  She knows her bible stories already… I can’t wait to see what God does through this 20 year old.  Maybe she’ll end up traveling the seas on an OM ship and seeing the world.  Maybe she’ll be a leader in Sierra Leone and  be a catalyst for change and help bring a corrupt nation back to God!

Over and out for the night.  Internet very sketchy tonight so I’m having trouble loading pics.  Check out my facebook here!

Arriving in Sierra Leone, Western Africa

Well! I’m in Sierra Leone, Western Africa. We landed last night at around 8pm. I flew the last leg – London to Freetown on BMI. It was a really fun flight. Everyone ‘congregated’ in the aisles talking and visiting with each other. VERY different to what’s even ‘allowed’ on US and AUS flights. I met other single ‘white’ chicks who were flying in to work on humanitarian projects as part of their US degrees.

Sarah A. Lanier talks in her book Foreign to Familiar: A guide to Understanding Hot and Cold-Climate Cultures about the ‘Hot Climate’ being relationship based and the ‘Cold Climate’ being task orientated.  So its funny how the luxury of ‘air conditioning’ has forced us indoors even in hot parts of the western world. I’m amazed at how many neighbours I didn’t know.  Over here, you drive through the villages and people are everywhere.  It’s actually pretty daunting.  People are staring everywhere… and if you catch their eye or say hello you’ll be shortly asked for money.

I was picked up from the airport and we headed towards Nyandehun (outside Waterloo).  You have to cross the Little Scarcies River on a ferry close to where it empties into the Atlantic Ocean.  That was a crazy experience.  An hour wait to get on… a little under an hour on it.  The boat owner invited us up to the ‘Presidential suite’.  So that was nice… and air conditioned!

Freetown FerrySo today I slept in and then we went to Bureh-Beach for a bit of a chilax.  It was lovely considering how hot and muggy it is.   For some reason I can’t get my pictures to upload just yet so I’m gonna sign out for the evening…

Blessings from Sierra Leone, Africa

On the way to Sierra Leone… how it happened!

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The story of how I ended up on this flight to Sierra Leone, Western Africa…
Ever since Mark Warren from Global Benefit made me watch the movie, Blood Diamond and getting to know ‘Robert and Ruth Searches’ who work with Living Waters International (LWI) in Sierra Leone I’ve felt a stirring in my heart to do something in this country. Unsure of what that looked like, my ears pricked up at every mention of the country.

You might remember a few years ago I had a ‘Party with a purpose’ and worked alongside ‘Global Benefit’ to raised money to restore a well in Africa. Turns out the village that received the water hadn’t had clean water in 30 years. Read more.
Early this year, Alabaster Box did a benefit concert with ‘The Chapel at Crosspoint’ in Buffalo, New York to raise funds for work being done in Sierra Leone. These guys along with Global Alliance group have a bunch of different work happening in the country and were planning trips over this summer. I thought maybe I was meant to join them.
A few months ago, the band I’ve been working with for six years, Alabaster Box, decided it was time to take at least a six month sabbatical. So I’ve excitedly been seeking God on what that means for me. Where would I work and what country would that be in. The only real clear sense I felt was that I needed to go to Sierra Leone on a short term trip. So I started pursuing options to go in June. The Alliance Group from Buffalo were planning on heading over on June 10. Looked perfect. I had flights booked to Australia July 2. So I thought I would spend the first week working with them and seeing the work they were doing and then the second week split and go visit Robert and Ruth to check out the work LWI and then travel back to the US alone. This seemed like a safe option… flying into a country I’ve never been too with people I knew…etc.

So with nothing yet concrete… the passion in my heart to go to Sierra Leone still burning I continue to ‘plan’ this trip and prayed the call was from the Lord. Not just my adventurous spirit and the thought of traveling to another country driving me.

Saturday almost three weeks ago, I was talking to a friend about my ‘possible adventures’ and we worked out we would possibly be able to connect when I flew home via Los Angeles late July. He ‘happened’ to be driving to Los Angeles. I had this crazy idea to see if he could fit two suitcase in his vehicle so I wouldn’t need to fly back to Nashville or cart three unnecessary bags to Africa! He thankfully let me!

Then Monday, I found out the Alliance group had to postpone their trip till July! I didn’t feel a peace that this was a close door. The timing and circumstances just all seemed right. I sent a text something like this to a couple of my girlfriends. “Trip to Sierra Leone in June has been postponed till July when I can’t go. Not sure if this is a closed door or God redirecting my steps and I’m meant to go alone”. I got two different responses – “Maybe God is shutting the door” and “I love how you’re not seeing this as a closed door”.

I’d being communicating with Ruth about coming the second week and really felt to see how they felt about me traveling alone and coming and spending the entire time with them. My fleece was if they gave me the green light and had no hesitations on me flying alone I would go and believe God for the funds. At that stage close to $800 dollars had come in and I was planning a ‘Party with a Purpose’ the following week to pray with friends and to try and raise the rest of the funds. (Airfare alone was over $2200) Auny Gill and Mandy DeSutter actually felt to organise the party for me. That day I had Auny calling me asking whether it was still happening! I couldn’t yet say…

Tuesday night I finally got an email from Ruth. She’d just got in from the field… it was really late at night there so it was short and sweet and basically said, “Come, we’ll pick you up from the airport. We’d love to have you! We’ll talk more soon!”

Wednesday I began researching flights and found a great deal with Flight Centre. (BTW they are a company that originated in Australia who will match any flights you find online and beat it by at least $10!) I also found out I needed to have a yellow fever shot and the flight itinerary to even get my visa and that it all needed to be FEDEX overnight the following day to even have a chance of getting it on time.

Thursday (two weeks before take off!) I booked a shots appointment in Smyrna, TN and bolted there. Got the yellow fever paperwork, filled in visa application and made it to the FEDEX office in Columbia TN, to overnight the visa application with 20mins to spare.

Friday I breathed a sigh of relief and then tried to comprehend what had just happened. I was on my way to Africa. A place I always imagined ‘missionary’s’ went too. When I was eight I remember surrendering my life to Jesus and to going wherever he sent me. The verses that called me Isaiah 6:8 – …I heard the voice of the Lord say, Whom shall I send? Who will go for me? Then said I ‘Here am I send me’. I always thought God had a sense of humour sending me to America!

So Sunday the ‘Party with a purpose’ happened at my house. What an incredible day. I am SO INCREDIBLY grateful and honoured to have so many dear friends. The time of prayer was so tangibly lead by the Holy Spirit. Different words, scriptures and prayers that were spoken were right on… actually beyond what I could imagine. It was so evident that I was meant to be heading to Sierra Leone.
Funds were raised above and beyond what I personally needed so I think we’ll get to see another well restored or money put towards another need that may come to my attention over there.

Some friends donated a small sound desk and microphones. This will be used to allow the gospel to be shared after the ‘Jesus film’ is shown. They may even be able to show this while I am there!

I am beyond excited… slightly daunted and unsure of all that will transpire in the next two weeks. But I am honoured that the Lord would allow me to go and I can’t wait to share with you what all happens. I absolutely would value your prayers and am so thankful for those who are already praying and fasting for this time. I am absolutely NOTHING without Christ. May more of him be shown and less of me!
Join me on this journey. I hope to blog as much as I can!

From O’hare Airport, Chicago

Money raised for wells in Sierra Leone…

Woohoo! I’ve found a moment to work out how much money was raised at my party… wait for it… $610! Thank you so much for your support of this incredible need in Sierra Leone. Every cent will go directly to Living Waters International. It’s so humbling to think how far the ‘American dollar’ (at this point anyway) can go to aid a third world country. Even if this is possibly the toughest time financially some of us have ever faced… we still have so much to be thankful for and we still have the capacity to give. Whatever happens… don’t let this economic crisis rob you from being able to give or serve others… however it may look.

Don’t forget to check out Global Benefit’s website. They are about partnering with YOU to transform culture. They want to provide the ‘not-for-profit organisation’ that enables you to raise finances or awareness for a need that you come across. So often our dreams can get shattered by how hard it is to set up these hugely challenging organisations. They partner with organisations such as Living Waters International who are already in countries making it all happen. They have the drilling rigs, relationships with countries and awareness of needs… they just need more exposure and support. Get it? I’m sure you’ll get more info about these different organisation in the next couple of months as we prepare to work with on a whole new level in 09.

Thanks again!

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To all my friends…

Thanks for the birthday wishes friends! You guys rock my world! I’m so grateful for friends… those I see every day or two… those I see once a year… those I just manage to stay in contact with via email, facebook or phone calls… those who I haven’t yet met but come and say g’day on twitter or on here. There’s nothing more precious then rekindling a friendship with someone you haven’t seen or heard from in so many years and it feeling like you’d never said goodbye.

Or when you meet someone new and have the best time ever and you wonder how it is possible to feel so connected after just a matter of moments. I love people… I love seeing friends connect with other friends and insular groups have their barriers broken down by new fun people!

There’s something to be said for those now somewhat cliche` lyrics we probably all sung at at our graduations – ‘…and friends are friends for ever if the Lord’s the Lord of them…’ I knew things would be different after high school… but I would never have imagined being where I am today or knowing the precious people I now know. My world revolved around my class of 60… all bar three people I think even rocked up to my 18th birthday at the barn out near out farm just weeks after our graduation. I think secretly we all hoped things would never change and that we would all be close buddy buddies forever. It was though, the birth of an intense love for people and a desire to get to know anyone and anybody.

I love that today our world today is so small. I’m amazed everyday at the mates who somehow find me on facebook… primary school buddies that I literally haven’t seen in 20 years… students I taught when I was a teacher who now are teachers themselves or are pursuing other amazing careers and dreams of their own. It’s such a privilege to live and to be part of other people’s lives. I once heard a statement that will remain with me forever… ‘every day whether you like it or not you are influencing someone!’ What kind of influence are you having on your colleagues? Your neighbours kids? Sometimes we live in our own selfish little bubble thinking only of ourselves… doing what we want when we want…etc. Even if this is the case and we really don’t care what other think… we are still being watched by someone and we are leaving a legacy. I pray you and I will leave a legacy that brings honour to the one who made us and who brought us to this earth! Thank YOU for your influence in my life!

6:30pm central time Dec 18 I’m gonna have a little fun and live stream my birthday party via Mogulus to this blog… so come and say g’day and meet some of my American buddies (maybe a few Aussie’s too!). It is a party with a purpose… so if you would like… the most amazing gift you could give me would be to give some fresh water to Sierra Leone, Western Africa. You can donate to Global Benefit by going to www.firstgive.com/joyargow. Hundreds of wells were destroyed during recent civil wars… tens of thousands of people die each day because they have to drink crap water. $2500 will restore one of these wells! We can do it!

Thank you friends and family!!! I am so blessed by YOU!

What Alabaster Box are doing about the Advent Conspiracy…

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This Christmas Alabaster Box is partnering with Global Benefit to do something different. In the little town of Chipley Florida, hundreds of youth are filling baby bottles with money they have raised and bringing it to the Alabaster Box “We will not be Silent” Christmas show. It’ll be a night of rock’n'rollin’ Christmas Carols AB style along with some hits from their latest album that reinforce the call. The monies raised will go directly to Living Water International who will use it to refurbish and restore wells that have been destroyed during recent civil wars in Sierra Leone. Thousands of Children will go without water this Christmas unless we do something…

Also there will ‘Party with TWO purposes’ here in Nashville (actually Columbia – sorry guys Columbia is the new Coolsprings!) 1. It’s my birthday so that’s an excuse to get together and 2. I’m too old to get pressies so if people want to give lets give some water to some mums, dads, children, grannies and popas in Sierra Leone this year. You can actually donate to the wells projects by going here. SOOOO too easy!

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